When Cash Money took over for the Nine-Nine and the Two Thousand, they needed a Hot Girl.

In 2019 Meg the Stallion revived the need for a hot girl and even went as far as to dedicate the entire summer of 2019 to these sought after women.

Although Aiden taught me that 40 is NOT the new 20, I still opted in on the summer festivities, and TRUTH IS IM TIDE!!!

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Whew! I have never been happier for a season to end. I am not talking about the season where you are extra broke and the Pastor tells you it’s over during the prosperity sermon right before they request your seed kind of tired. I'm talking about whew I can't remember what I did last night, but I know I had fun because my friends made sure to record it tired.

Now, of course, there were sermons and memes dedicated to making this Hot Girl Summer added as the eighth deadly sin. Because God forbid that women participate in anything that isn’t sexualized. But I’m here to tell you, the hot girls I know were out here making moves, money and most definitely living their BEST life!!!

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I watched the hot girls I know traveling with other hot girls…

Travel with somebody’s son….

Travel by their damn selves…

Get Married….

Welcome new life…

Get promotions…

Start new jobs…

Quit jobs they hate…

Start businesses…

Find their purpose…

Relocate for love…

Relocate for a fresh start…

Enroll in yet ANOTHER degree program…

Enjoy the company of somebody’s son…

Let go of bad relationships…

Take leaps of faith…

Write their stories…

RECLAIM THEIR TIME!!!!! (Shout Out to my 12 for always keeping me abreast of the ways the modern mom reclaims her time.)

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The hot girls I know lived their life UNAPOLOGETICALLY this summer because they don’t allow others to define what their life should look like or what gives them joy.

As for me… What did I do this Hot Girl Summer?

I started my hot girl summer with my line sisters, and in true Oh-Foe fashion, we didn’t let a little stampede stop our fun. We enjoyed good food, good music and a plethora of full beards. Hey Philly… What’s Good?!?

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I enjoyed Summer Music Festivals with my friends.

I had dinners with somebody’s sons.

I brunched.

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I got Aiden on a schedule (but as the season's change I learned so do sleep schedules).

I lunched… SHOUT OUT to Zama’s Mexican Grille!!!

I got flewed out.

I turned 40 AGAIN.

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I wrote my first novel.

I finished my 2020 Priority Planner. 

I helped others publish.

I did my first 45 Day Writing Challenge.

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And I did as my Ari always taught me……. I made sure to hold my head high and NEVER let my crown slip.

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Now that this hot girl summer has come to an end that doesn't mean the Hot Girls have to stop living. It is F*** 'Em Up Fall!!! We have to apply more pressure. No need to wait until the New Year to set those new goals…. Every day is a clean slate! Start on those goals NOW!!!

Tell me… How was your Hot Girl Summer?

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